I did talk about how gays demanding straight acting and straight appearing are showing signs of repressed homophobia. Putting stalking types on ignore apparently doesn't always shut them up, time to respond to the blatant distortions. I am growing tired of these imaginary charges so it's time I defend myself. Is this the challenge Jingthing threw out in another thread to open another thread discussing the alleged sexual orientation of "gay-looking" or "gay-acting" men" based on pre-1970's stereotypes?įor the record, I never said anything of the kind. If I had sex with a woman would I now be bisexual? If you saw me having sex with a woman and didn't know that I'm gay would I be straight? Edited Augby endure I've shown you mine - now you show me yours. If you called her a guy she'd rip your nuts off. If I saw two ladyboys holding hands and kissing I'm not quite sure what I'd assume as the only direct experience I have of ladyboys is with Bambina, a poster on Thaivisa. If I saw two guys holding hands and kissing I'd assume they were gay. If you go to a pool party and see two guys holding hands and kissing would you assume they are they gay? Just a simple question for men who identify as gay. Not just holding hands, I never said that. If you go to a pool party and see two guys holding hands and kissing are they gay?
Maybe the third time is a charm so I’ll try again. Now would I become bisexual if I had sex with a woman? If you didn't know that I was gay and you saw me having sex with the woman would I be straight? Neither he, his wife and kids nor I think he's gay. I have a Thai friend who frequently holds my hand when I go to visit him. Straight men holding hands happens all over the world. That depends on what part of the world I'm in. The question was would you consider two males holding hands and kissing, gay? Only men with long hair and men with short hair. If I did have sex with a woman would I then be bisexual? I've never wanted to have sex with a woman. The most noticeable difference was men with long hair and men with short hair. All of the Thai males there were lady boys. The pool party was thrown by a lady boy bar. Based on what I have described do people who identify as gay males know enough to assume it is a gay pool party? Or is it necessary to ask two males holding hands and kissing if they identify as gay to assume they are both gay males? There were no women at the party.Īfter a couple of hours all of the people had paired off and were having drinks and holding hands and such. It was a very friendly pool party and many of the men were playing games in the pool and frolicking around with the others at the party. Some of the guys had on bikini bathing trunks and some speedos and some boxer bathing trunks.